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Donna Hetchler's avatar

I love how you can look back on younger Byron with such tenderness, a good lesson for all of us.

Byron Lane's avatar

That poor sweet mess of a kid. I wish him the best haha

SUSAN WIECZOREK's avatar

After reading your latest post and then watching the you tube version, I just wanted to jump up and give you a BIG hug and say “You did it ! Took your broken heart and made art !” That is, after I wiped away a few tears…you write and talk so eloquently, so personally, gets me every time. Thank you for sharing.

Byron Lane's avatar

I can’t put into words how much this means to me. Thanks Su ❤️

Afonso Salcedo's avatar

Love the tenderness here Byron, but catching him watching the last six minutes of 6 Feet Under with someone else? Unacceptable ;)

🫶

Byron Lane's avatar

THE WORST! AND MY CANDLE 😭

BriGuyRN's avatar

Sounds a lot like my journey to polyamory, only I tended to alternately be the weatherman and the young newscaster depending on the day

Byron Lane's avatar

Haha variety the spice of life ❤️🌈

Nicki Tepe's avatar

“Maybe I broke my own heart”…. Wow, this landed hard! As I read this… I was angry with your weatherman…. Until that sentence. Although I am still very angry at him about the candle… not OK!

Byron Lane's avatar

FRIEND THAT CANDLE. Truly I was more candle hurt than heart broken maybe 😂

Judith Jaeger's avatar

Another piece from you, Byron, that proves we're not alone in our vulnerable moments. I, too, still find myself puzzling over an experience of first love decades later, wondering at the intensity of emotion and what it was really. This resonated deeply.

Dre Vazquez's avatar

This was so sweet, so tender, so honest. I loved it. Thank you for sharing.

Byron Lane's avatar

Thanks Dre! That really means a lot to me :)

Sophie's avatar

I loved reading this. So vulnerable and tender. Thank you for sharing.

Byron Lane's avatar

Whew thanks but not easy—sharing still makes me so nervous. Grateful and comforted by the kind response. Thanks Sophie :)

Sophie's avatar

I hear you! Vulnerability hangovers are real. xo

Byron Lane's avatar

“Vulnerability hangover” ! Love

Theater Is Hard.'s avatar

This is so beautifully written - loved reading it.

Byron Lane's avatar

Thank you Sara! :)

Theater Is Hard.'s avatar

(Kinda makes me wanna pull the trigger on my piece about show-mances 😜)

Byron Lane's avatar

ABSOLUTELY INSTANTLY DONT PASS GO!

Patrick Erwin's avatar

Tears.

Lovely, and so true.

I walked this journey with my first love.

Byron Lane's avatar

Aw Patrick! I’m hugging you now. Here we go, there we were… love that we can look back with warm hearts.

David Luck's avatar

I remember this time in your life like it was yesterday. Thank you for sharing. You really know how to turn past pain into a beautiful memory. 😊

Byron Lane's avatar

OMG WHAT A TIME! I really do look back so fondly my friend. :)

Chad Darnell's avatar

Love this!

Byron Lane's avatar

Thanks Chad! Wild time but I look back with such fondness :)

Lisa Cheek's avatar

What a fabulous piece! How do you know it's love? Thank you.

Byron Lane's avatar

Appreciate you Lisa!!! :)

Scott Schroeder's avatar

A uniquely wonderful and moving coming of age story. Thanks for sharing it.

Byron Lane's avatar

I was so nervous to share! Sometimes that’s the best reason to do it.

gay little th0ts's avatar

I need you to write Weatherman as a screenplay and hand it to Harry Lighton, please.

Byron Lane's avatar

HARRY LET’S DO THIS! HA! Thanks for the love!

Laura Bird's avatar

Ah, first love. Brutal and beautiful all at once.